5 Ways to Act Like an Expert in Online Communities
August 10th, 2007 · Filed Under: New Media Marketing Strategy · New Media Marketing Tips
If you want to be perceived as an expert, act like the true experts act.
One of the essential strategies of new media marketing is to position yourself as an expert on your topic. You can do this via a variety of methods: publishing articles, blogging, creating and posting video tutorials, podcasts or talk radio, webinars and so on.
But one of the easiest and still most effective is by participating in a group. This can be a group within a modern social networking site like Facebook or MySpace, or it can be a community built on technologies that have been around for years, like Yahoo! Groups, Google Groups (the modern incarnation of Usenet), discussion forums or e-mail discussion lists. Let’s be perfectly clear that “new media” strategies can be applied to media that is “old”, at least in internet time.
One of the things that I’ve been studying closely over the past five years is how exactly “real” experts behave in these settings. And when I say “real” experts, I mean the ones who have published books, speak at conferences, have peer-reviewed papers in trade journals, and so on. Are they necessarily the most knowledgeable on the topic? No. But they have the best reputations and are generally far more financially successful than the “wanna-be” experts.
You know the wanna-be expert… you’ve seen them. They always have an opinion about everything posted in the group. They’ll ramble on for paragraph after paragraph, making their case ad nauseam. And it seems that whenever there’s a flame war, they’re right in the middle of it, even if it doesn’t look like they started it.
If you want to be perceived as a real expert, not a wanna-be, you need to act like a real expert, not a wanna-be.
So how do real experts act?
In order to understand how real experts act, let’s look first at two key attributes of experts:
- They’re busy. They’re working — writing, traveling, speaking, consulting for a client, whatever… Point is, they have better things to do with their time than spend all day in a discussion forum.
- They’re extremely careful about what they say. They know that people are paying attention to them, and that has two consequences. First of all, they know that their reputation is on the line every time they open their mouth — that everything they say will be subject to scrutiny. Secondly, they also know that people will put a lot of weight into what they say and probably act upon it, so they feel a strong sense of responsibility to provide good information.
When you understand those things, it’s easy to see why experts behave as they do in this context:
- Experts post less frequently. They aren’t usually heavily, heavily engaged in the group unless it’s their own group or they have some kind of leadership role. Depending on the overall posting volume, anywhere from a couple of posts a week to just a couple per month is sufficient to keep their name out there.
- Experts aren’t quick to reply. They usually aren’t the first ones to join in the conversation. Remember, they’re not sitting there watching for posts as they come in — they may only even read the group posts once or twice a week. Also, they read and reflect on the reactions of others before posting their own thoughts.
- Experts consolidate the conversation, not fragment it. There’s a tendency in active groups for conversations to “fragment”, i.e., multiple people reply to the original post, then people create replies to the replies, and so on. Experts don’t typically reply to people individually, but rather create a single, longer post that addresses what several people have said all at once.
- Experts substantiate what they say. Experts are researchers. Sure, they have opinions, but most of them didn’t earn their reputations based purely on their opinions. So when they make statements in these groups, they often back it up by citing sources, whether it’s something they’ve written themselves or that someone else wrote. It’s especially helpful if you link to the sources you’re citing. And if it’s yourself, that’s a great promotional tool at the same time.
- Experts keep it professional. They certainly don’t participate in flame wars, and they rarely bring their personal issues into the group.
Contrary to popular opinion, effective marketing in forums and discussion lists is not about volume, it’s about presence and positioning. Act like a real expert, not a wanna-be, and you will attract more business.
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| Scott Allen helps people turn virtual relationships into real business. He is coauthor of The Virtual Handshake: Opening Doors and Closing Deals Online, an A-list blogger as the Entrepreneurs Guide for About.com, and a monthly columnist for FastCompany.com. He runs his latest project, Revenue River, on the BLOG i360 New Media Marketing system. | |
















August 10th, 2007 at 2:40 am
This is good but I think you need to mention more about Authenticity. You need to come off the right way, or people will stop caring after a while.
August 10th, 2007 at 3:47 am
Your first part about experts being busy and being aware that others are watching them is so true. I appreciate your focus on the habits of effective expert contributors.
What you’re getting at also is relevance, which we all know is critical.
Thank you.
Ronda Del Boccio, The Story lady of Storyation.com
August 10th, 2007 at 6:36 am
@Dan - You’re right, of course. In the context of all of the rest of my writing, that goes without saying. What I was going after here in particular is how the true A-list experts behave differently than many other participants.
I suppose, though, I see a way in which that applies on the expert issue as well… true experts don’t “act” smart — they are smart.
And what I mean by that is that the true experts actually seem to be able to put the concepts into plain, simple language that everyone can understand better than the next tier.
They also don’t put people down — they may correct, but they don’t insult in doing so. Why? Because they’re not threatened.
August 10th, 2007 at 10:24 am
Well, basically all of these ways to act like an expert were all true. Based on what I saw, these people were busy doing things which are important to them.
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August 14th, 2007 at 4:19 pm
Great tips Scott. In addition to acting like an expert online, people need to do the same thing offline. Some of the ways to do this, as you mentioned, are to write a book, speak in public, or let people know your expertise when talking one on one. Basically, you need to brand yourself as an expert on a particular topic such as Internet marketing, business networking, cold calling, etc. We should all learn from you Scott and how you have done this with Online Networking. I consider you the go to person when it comes to this subject.
August 16th, 2007 at 10:24 am
Scott, in my role as Work.com Community Manager (a site for people, many of whom are real experts, to post business how-to advice), I have found that true experts are often more humble than “wanna-be” experts. I’ll never forget once I heard the Dalai Lama give a talk. In the middle of talking about compassion for fellow human beings, etc. he suddenly was searching for a word in English. He turned to his translator and they were murmuring back-and-forth in Tibetan for quite some time. The audience of over 100o people at the San Francisco Civic Center was waiting expectantly. Finally the Dalai Lama turned back to the audience, beamed, threw up his hands, and said, “Never mind!” in perfect English.
It seems to me that true experts know a lot, but are also willing to admit the limitations of their knowledge.
Shara
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September 21st, 2007 at 1:01 pm
Very GOOD STUFF! Thank you! For me this was just a reminder. I want to be an expert!
One of my favorite quotes says, “If youwant to be successful, model yourself after successful people.” - Tony Robbins
September 24th, 2007 at 2:36 pm
Great post and I remember reading years ago in a networking book, when first starting my business, the value of getting ‘out there’ and letting people know your thoughts and values. This was pre-internet and how true it is today - even moreso.