Seduced by Social Media Sites, or In-Love With Your New Media Marketing Hub?
July 24th, 2008 · Filed Under: Blog Traffic · New Media Marketing Strategy · New Media Marketing Tips · New Media Marketing Tools · Tribal Seduction Formulas · Tribal Seduction Principles
It’s a mistake I see far too many marketers and entrepreneurs making. They are being lured into seductive social media communities, wooed by and caught up in the passion of these interactive environments. They without the right strategy, they invest hours of their time forgetting that the only tangible benefit (their database of friends or followers) is controlled by a 3rd party who can change the rules of the game at any time.
A perfect example is how most users of Twitter have had a rude awakening over the last 48-hours or so. They awoke yesterday to find their “following” and “followers” lists slashed in half… or more! Hundreds and even thousands of contacts gone! POOF!
Twitter’s explanation:

Poor excuse, but who’s to blame?
Twitter’s “spam” excuse is a poor one. I and several other people I know on Twitter personally visit the page of each new Follower as new requests come in. So to see several hundred followers disappear and have Twitter say they “spammers” is clearly BS.
That’s to be expected and nothing to get upset about. It’ a danger you should expect. Twitter can do and say anything they want. And so can any other Social Network. Any of them can change the rules of the game whenever they want. They can arbitrarily put caps on the number of followers or friends you can have. Even delete people from your list at their whim.
See, the problem is not with Twitter, Facebook, or any other “free” Social Networking channel. The blame rests with you if you leave it to these services to have control over your contact list. Harsh, but true.
Some people learn the hard way that Social Networks are merely communication channels, not storage facilities. Let’s help you avoid any hard lessons in the future.
Protecting yourself and safe-guarding your hard work
So how do you protect yourself from the painful loss of contacts and connections you’ve worked hard to gain from Social Networks? It’s simple!
Keep the focus on your New Media Marketing Hub!
Social Networks are ONLY channels to leverage. They are NOT to be trusted with your most valuable asset; your contacts. They are conduits through which you attract and connect — but the core of all your efforts, the home base for all your Tribe – must be your Hub!
Your New Media Marketing Hub is where the ever-upwardly spiraling Tribal Seduction ™ Action Trinity (Attract-Connect-Convert) yields the greatest long-term results.
Your New Media Marketing Hub is the Alpha and the Omega of ALL that you do online. It is what will grow and protect your Tribe, your business, and your bank account. Your Hub is the home where your love, passion and primary attention belongs. Not out on the streets of the Social Networking communities.
What a New Media Marketing Hub IS and IS NOT
Before we take a look at the 5 simple steps to maximizing the profit impact of your New Media Marketing Hub, let’s get clear on what a hub is and is not.
- A New Media Marketing Hub is NOT a blog.
A blog helps with two parts of the Tribal Seduction? Action Triad: Attraction and Connection. Conversion cannot be done efficiently on a regular blog.
- A New Media Marketing Hub is NOT a regular sales site.
This type of site may be optimized for Conversions, but no matter how well written the copy, no matter how persuasive the videos, no matter how shocking the offer is – it will fail miserably when it comes to the Attraction and Connection of the Action Triad. (And in many cases, this type of site works against you no matter how you send people there, even from your blog.)
- A New Media Marketing Hub IS a single site that combines Attraction, Connection, and Conversion.
By having one central destination for your Tribe, the hard pitch can fall away. Instead, with a little bit of careful planning, application of Tribal Seduction principles and an understanding of human nature — you can strategically hide “pathways” to conversion that your Tribe will discover on their own.
These seemingly hidden pathways are a core component of Tribal Seduction mastery. When you leverage your Hub this way, people discover offerings on their own. And when you have automated persuasion triggers that are activated when they arrive on those particular pages – they own the decision. You are only there as the trusted provider, not hard-pushing salesperson.
When it’s done properly, no rapport is broken…
And even if you don’t make a sale, trust is actually increased!
More on this important Tribal Seduction principle in the future. But for now, suffice it to say that if you have people jumping around to different URLs, you will break rapport, lose sales… and most damaging of all – chip away trust!
How to keep a profitable perspective and make your “Hub” work for you
So how do you maximize the profit impact of your New Media Marketing Hub?
I’ve kept it real simple here and broken things down into 5 steps. Some require you to take action, other things happen auto-magically. And I’ve provided some images to help you envision how this would work for you.
Steps 1 and 2
In Step 1 you start at your hub with the creation of content that’s valuable to your Tribe. You choose a media format, post it and you’re off!
In Step 2, like the rays of the sun shining out across the sky; you begin to radiate additional sources of exposure for your new content. Some of these destinations you may have to actually take action yourself. (BLOGi360 members are lucky since most all of Step 2 is automated within the system as soon as they hit the “Save” button.)

Step 3
In Step 3 you (or one of your team) must go out and actively interact in the New Media channels available online. There is no cheating here. Step 3 requires personal interaction.
You don’t necessarily have to hit every one of these channels. Depending on your Tribe, your Communication Code™ and your Persuasive Selling Platform™ – the channels you use here can be pre-set. Or they can vary based on your content or the media used to share that content.

Step 4
This is an easy step because this is happening auto-magically for you behind the scenes. Whether you build and maintain a New Media Marketing Hub on your own, or put a BLOGi360 Hub to work for you – the key thing to focus on here is the automated service to your subscribers.
Streams of new visitors and traffic are great. But the most important people are your current subscribers and customers. The only way to build trust, rapport and deeper relationships with your Tribe (and turn them into raving fans,) is through repeated NON-sales contact.
When you’re leveraging your New Media Marketing Hub properly, you can see below in Step 4 how you’re getting BOTH new exposure and relationship reinforcement automatically. Something you can only do with a Hub.

Step 5
Once again, a drop-dead easy step – enjoying the fruits of your action. As your engagement radiates out from your Hub into the New Media Marketplace, the energy you put out returns back to your Hub in the form of tangible results.
Deeper relationships with current clients, more trust with new members of your Tribe, and new visitors – which you immediately focus on welcoming into your subscriber family.

Wrapping it up
We’ll expand more on the New Media Marketing Hub concept in the near future. But for now, use these charts and the Hub overview presented here to remind yourself of where your focus should always start and return to… no matter where you may roam in the New Media Marketplace.
- Always be focused on executing the Tribal Seduction™ CHARM Formula™ and Action Trinity™.
- And most important of all — persuasively, influentially and seductively — move people from interaction with you on social networks over to your New Media Marketing hub.
How can the New Media Marketing Hub concept help you?
- Have you gotten a new (or renewed) perspective on what you main goal is when marketing online?
- What profit or list building ideas have you gotten from the Hub concept?
- How will you change the way you spend your time, energy and resources marketing with New Media?
- Do you have some other ideas we didn’t cover here?
Spill your mind. Share your thoughts in some graffiti down below.
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John Paul Micek is a co-founder of the international business coaching company RPM Success Group ® Inc. He and his partner Deborah Micek are authors of the hit book Secrets Of Online Persuasion, and creators of the BLOG i360™ New Media Marketing Site Creater. |
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July 24th, 2008 at 5:16 pm
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July 24th, 2008 at 5:26 pm
This is a great post. Thanks so much for outlining it so clearly! I’m just now looking further into the social aspect of marketing and your post really helped me understand the why behind the whole thing. Much appreciated.
July 24th, 2008 at 7:04 pm
JP and Deb - this was worth hundreds right there, if not thousands. The Twitter thing weirded me out for sure!
Thanks for the kick a$$ tips guys!
–z–
July 24th, 2008 at 7:57 pm
Awesome article, JP.
For others who may be reading this and wondering if it’s all BS, I can assure you that JP’s da man, that JP and Coach Deb have nailed the wisdom of new media marketing.
Their teaching in the Tribal Seduction course on these principles and practices is bearing great fruit for their students.
Thanks again JP for another quality contribution to the body of knowledge on new media marketing.
July 24th, 2008 at 8:35 pm
Jesse ~ New Media holds a lot of power and the social aspect is alluring — but to get real tangible results that will pay the bills, you need to have a clear focus and a strategy. Happy to hear this helped clarify things for you. Welcome to the Tribe!
Zach ~ Thanks buddy! You can send your check or credit card number to… LOL
Karyn ~ Wow! Thank you. I appreciate your feedback (we are dedicated to making a difference,) and am humbled by you comments (not an easy thing to do
) You are a true Loyal.
July 24th, 2008 at 9:33 pm
Hey JP
Thanks for the great reminder… I need to take those charts out of my Tribal Seduction binder and put them on the wall.
Even a time strategies need a nudge to keep her on track and make sure she stays focused on keeping these activities balanced.
Ann Rusnak
“The Time Diva”
July 24th, 2008 at 10:24 pm
JP, again with the sharing? You really laid it on thick this time.
That’s a lot of valuable information, and a “persuasive” argument for engaging in Social Media. Along with the Playbook, this gives a map of where to go, what to do. So how much is 2 + 2 ? If someone can answer that, then they’ll be able to dig this one.
On Collecting Connections Data:
I’ve thought about the E-mail thing with Twitter (not Email, I know) and several other “channels” and how to extract that valuable piece of information. With Twitter you could use TwitterSearch.com to recover perhaps the last 3 weeks of your Tweets. Then some fancy text editing to filter the @names out. Then there’s Twitstat.com where if you follow @twitstat you can get a couple of month’s worth of who tweeted you. Twitstat has some categorizations too, where I noticed CoachDeb in the category, Perfect tweets, past 14 days, with 185 tweets.
Still not good enough, let’s try Summize (Twitter Search, now), seems similar about 2 month’s data but in both directions your Tweets and Replies. There has to be something better, both Quotably and Twitscoop strike out. Not enough days to be significant.
Oh and in case someone asks what about the Archive on your home Twitter page? It only goes back about 10 days for me at least.
And that’s just my experiments with Twitter, I’m not even going to try this with Facebook, Myspace, and all those Ning.com Social Networking sites. But I do have a lot of “friends” out there, wouldn’t it be nice to have a way to capture that data?
Thinking about this for a while, good practice for the brain.
Thanks JP an Deb, Stimulating as usual.
Mike
http://twitter.com/mike1mb
July 24th, 2008 at 10:31 pm
Mike ~ These are some terrific ideas! @CoachDeb (a.k.a.; the Twitter Queen) was under-the-weather yesterday, so I couldn’t ask her - but I was hoping someone would add some strategies for people who may still find their Follower or Following counts off. Thanks for sharing these suggestions to go through and fill in the gaps.
July 24th, 2008 at 10:39 pm
Thanks guys ! new fan here - this really does map it out clearly and answers the question about how to maintain rapport and pay the bills
Cheers - you’re in my reader
Glen Crosier
Brighton
UK
July 24th, 2008 at 10:50 pm
Glen ~ That’s the key — balance the rapport building with putting money in the bank.
Many people feel “manipulative” when they leverage rapport, trust and friendship for business purposes. But if you have a quality product or service that can really positively impact people’s live, why would you ever withhold that from the people you’re most closely connected to.
It’s all about timing and intent. Be out of sync in your timing and you’ll look like part of the Black Triad. Have a self-focused intent (or a scammy product) and that is when leveraging connection becomes deceptive manipulation. I would argue, it becomes even more damaging than if someone just took a straight-up Marketplace Molester approach because the victim “gave” trust and “affection” and had it used against them.
July 24th, 2008 at 11:45 pm
This is inspiring JP!, Thanks. - Great guidance on how to leverage social networks. It is especially useful to see the process mapped and illustrated.
Many of my clients (list-builders) have expressed to me the trouble they have placing social networking in their marketing mix. I’m not qualified to answer them, being much of an experimentalist in this area myself, but with this post you’ve given me the perfect place to send them.
In the same way we must have struggled with the telephone when it went mainstream a hundred years ago, we’re now discovering the art of communication by social networking. How clumsy our efforts will look in ten years time!
July 25th, 2008 at 4:37 am
Good stuff. I’m new to web marketing and am just getting into social media. The “Twitter Incident” was a wake-up call for me. Thanks so much for the clarification.
Brenda
http://twitter.com/rossbren
July 25th, 2008 at 6:21 am
JP, and Deb,
This was great stuff… it confirmed a great deal for me, and brought new clarity into a potential confusing area. This was an extremely valuable post.
It also confirmed that I need to get deeper into my playbook!
JAM
July 25th, 2008 at 7:47 am
Tim ~ Great to hear about the referrals. Appreciate that and we won’t let you down.
The cool thing about Tribal Seduction is that it’s all centered on an inside-out scientific core. It all starts with YOU and works it way out. It’s 180-degrees opposite of what any other marketing course or philosophy (college, “guru” or general biz development) teaches.
Because of that inside-out foundation the TS formulas, principles and strategies enhance and optimize many of the effective, ethical marketing tactics taught by other experts. And that’s why Tribal Seduction is a “marketing-for-life” program.
Brenda & JAM ~ Happy to help.
July 25th, 2008 at 10:57 am
Finally!! I have been feeling absolutely overwhelmed with the chaotic strands of internet strategies I’ve been trying to implement. Didn’t know how to prioritize or organize my efforts til now.
Thank you so much for the in-depth post. I, too, think I’ll print it out and post in an accessible place! Whew.
July 26th, 2008 at 2:06 am
Thanks for sharing on twitter as I am just opening account with them.
August 10th, 2008 at 5:03 pm
This is a brilliant strategy and of course, I totally agree.
These graphs and ant-fonts are hard for me to read though. So, I’m going to have to print this thing out and study it.
Do you have a Step by Step “what to do each day” thing to follow?
That would be really helpful as my #1 challenge with leveraging social media is a step by step daily plan.
Thanks,
Rick Butts
Main Squeeze